NLP Meta Model: Precision Questioning and Listening
The NLP Meta Model starts with our ability recognize language patterns that people use, which give away the filters they are applying. Where these filters lead them to make an unhelpful interpretation of events , the second part of the Meta Model equips us to challenge those deletions, distortions, and generalizations.
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NLP
This video is part of course module 2.9.2
Program 2: Manager as Communicator
Course 9: NLP
Section 2: Understandoing People
Dr Mike Clayton has been an NLP Master Practitioner since 2003.
Other videos in this section include:
🎬 NLP Eye Accessing Cues: WTF? https://youtu.be/wW9xJe_y7DE
🎬 NLP Perceptual Positions: Putting Yourself in Another Person’s Place https://youtu.be/QP4YSQXd_g0
🎬 NLP Meta Programs: How we See the World https://youtu.be/hhTVdu4QU8o
LESSON NOTES
The NLP founders, John Grinder and Richard Bandler defined the Meta Model from observing and transcribing the interventions that family therapist, Virginia Satir, made with her clients. She would notice what they said and ask precision questions that exposed the filters that were scrambling their thinking.
The patterns of language we use get in the way of communicating accurately – with others and with ourselves. The Meta Model gives us a set of patterns we can recognize, and suggests questions we can ask, to challenge the faulty thinking embedded in the Language we use.
Distortions
– Lost Performative
– Mind Reads
– Cause and Effect
– Complex Equivalence
Generalizations
– Universal Quantifiers
– Modal Operators
Deletions
– Simple Deletions
– Lack of referential index
– Comparative Deletions
– Nominalizations
RECOMMENDED EXERCISE
1. Listen out for distortions, deletions, and generalizations in your own speech. Do this for 2 weeks then take time to reflect on what you have learned. (2 MC CPD Points)
2. Listen out for distortions, deletions, and generalizations in other people’s speech. Do this for 2 weeks then take time to reflect on what you have learned. (2 MC CPD Points)
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RECOMMENDED READING
There are many books that introduce NLP. These are the ones I have, and can recommend:
📖 NLP Workbook: A Practical Guide To Achieving The Results You Want https://geni.us/LNhW
📖 NLP at Work: The Difference that Makes the Difference https://geni.us/we84
📖 Introducing NLP: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People https://geni.us/H3VneOh
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CHAPTER MARKERS
00:00 – NLP Filters
01:02 – The origins of the NLP Meta Model
01:43 – What is the NLP Meta Model?
02:27 – Distortions
04:36 – Generalizations
05:44 – Deletions
07:09 – Summing up the Meta Model
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