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Persuasive Language: How to Influence with the Words You Choose

Words have power. And some have a lot more power than others. Indeed, some have so little that they diminish the impact of the words around them. Knowing what words do and do not have power is important, if you want to use your language to influence and persuade.

Watching this video is worth 1 Management Courses CPD Point*.
🔎 See below for details

Influencing and Persuading
This video is part of course module number 2.6.2
Program 2: Manager as Communicator
Course 6: Influencing and Persuading
Section 2: Verbal Influence and Persuasion

Other videos in this section include:
🎬 Rhetoric: The Golden Key to Verbal Persuasion https://youtu.be/dKXeNijTCtE
🎬 Help them Persuade Themselves: the Influence of Questions https://youtu.be/_iVrYapVmYE
🎬 Social Proof: Recruiting Support for Your Verbal Persuasion https://youtu.be/E4sLIq5pxGk
🎬 How to Win an Argument https://youtu.be/jajwIEvJ-ks
🎬 How to Get Someone to Help you or Do You a Favor https://youtu.be/3IoDTWY7g7s
🎬 How to Change Someone’s Mind https://youtu.be/TTusOjf9YdY
🎬 Forgiveness: How to Get Forgiven https://youtu.be/ZZVQazpxu-U

= = LESSON NOTES = =
00:00 – Some words have the power to persuade
00:33 – Power words that focus attention
00:54 – Power words that give confidence
01:34 – Power words that add value
02:14 – Power words that signal emotion
02:48 – One word that is especially powerful
03:28 – Puny words
04:20 – Puny words that distract
04:33 – Puny words that almost turn the meaning around
05:00 – Summing up power words

= = RECOMMENDED EXERCISE = =
1. Start paying attention to the use of powerful and puny words in the people around you. What impacts do you notice? (2 MC CPD Points)
2. Start being deliberate in you use of power words and your avoidance of puny words. What impacts do you notice? (2 MC CPD Points)

= = DOWNLOADS = =
Free Resources
🧰 CPD Tools – https://gum.co/MC-CPD
Paid resources
🧳 Management Courses Onboarding Kit – https://gum.co/MC-ObK ($3)

= = RECOMMENDED READING = =
📖 My own book on Influence (introductory level)
– How to Influence in Any Situation (Brilliant Influence 2nd Ed) https://geni.us/dAS7
📖 Excellent books at a more advanced level
– Influence: Science and Practice (a classic) https://geni.us/DIX0kFL
– Influencer: The New Science of Leading Change https://geni.us/3nBJM
– The Influence Agenda (for Stakeholder Engagement) https://geni.us/InfAg
– Methods of Persuasion https://geni.us/EVYP
– Presuasion https://geni.us/aBZo0XO
– 5 Paths to Persuasion https://geni.us/Vg2vB

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Paradox of Choice: Influencing through Selection
Momentum: How to Make it Easy for them to Say ‘Yes’
The Jiminy Cricket Effect: Cognitive Dissonance and the Urge for Consistency
Getting Agreement by Slicing up the Pie
Use the Power of Scarcity with Integrity
Peer Pressure: The Awesome Power of Social Proof
The Power of the Word ‘Because’ in Influence and Persuasion
WIIFM? How to Use Self-interest to Influence and Persuade
Forgiveness: How to Get Forgiven
How to Change Someone’s Mind
Get a Favor: How to Get Someone to Help you or Do You a Favor
How to Win an Argument
Social Proof: Recruiting Support for Your Verbal Persuasion
Help them Persuade Themselves: the Influence of Questions
Rhetoric: The Golden Key to Verbal Persuasion
KISS: Keep It Short & Simple when You Want to Influence & Persuade
Matching & Mirroring: How to Influence by Building Rapport
Tit-for-Tat: How to Influence with Reciprocation
How to Influence People by Appealing to their Emotion
How to Use Reason and Logic in Influence & Persuasion
How to Build Trust. And Why it Matters in Influence & Persuasion
How to Use Your Authority to Influence and Persuade
How to Influence by Making People Feel Good
Appearance Matters in Influence & Persuasion
Ethos: the Importance of Character in Influence & Persuasion
The Core of Influence & Persuasion: Ethos, Logos, and Pathos – Character, Reason, and Emotion
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: the Ethics of Influence and Persuasion

Mike Clayton

About Mike Clayton 

Dr Mike Clayton is a (former) Project Manager and now a management educator. Having trained thousands of people at live workshops, seminars, and conferences, he now delivers training mainly via video. He has 14 books with international publishers and runs two successful YouTube channels. He is also the founder of OnlinePMCourses.com

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