The second domain of Emotional Intelligence is Self Regulation. This is about managing your emotional state and the behavioral and social choices you make.
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Overview of Emotional Intelligence
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Program 1: Managing Yourself
Course 4: Emotional Intelligence
Section 2: The Components of Emotional Intelligence
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The key components of self-regulation are:
• Trustworthiness and integrity
• Adaptability and flexibility
• Conscientiousness
• Optimism
• Self-control
• The ability to manage our emotional state, when it serves you to do so
Note that it doesn’t always serve us to manage our emotions - we need to accept them and embrace them. Only sometimes are there pressing priorities that our emotions hinder.
Managers, professionals, and leaders who can regulate their emotions:
• Make better decisions
• Avoid upsetting people around them
• Maintain stronger positive motivation
• Stick more closely to their values
• Perform better in solving problems and getting things done
Practice recognizing your triggers and deliberately remaining calm. Try:
• Deep breathing
• Stepping away for a moment
• Stating your emotion, rather than letting it dominate
The ABC Model
• Activating event is the trigger
• Beliefs you hold lead to your interpretation - which has
• Consequences for how you respond
So, examine your belief and interpretations.
The SCOPE Process
Stope, Clarify, Options, Proceed, Evaluate
Resilience Oxygen mask
Good fuel, Good rest, Good energy, Good relationships
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It doesn’t always serve us to manage our emotions. What are examples of times when:
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2. you do? (1 MC CPD Point)
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3. How to Say NO: The Noble Objection
4. Overcome Overwhelm: Dealing with the Feeling of Being Overwhelmed
5. Select one of the strategies we discuss in the video or one of the other videos. Use it for 2 weeks and then take time to evaluate how it worked for you. (4 MC CPD Points)
6. Repeat Exercise 5 (4 MC CPD Points)
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00:00 - The second domain of Emotional Intelligence: Self-Regulation
00:18 - The Components of Self-Regulation
00:42 - What about Self-Motivation?
01:05 - Managing your emotions
01:38 - How can you regulate your emotions?
02:10 - When your emotions are in control
02:43 - The benefits of controlling your emotions
03:12 - How to regulate your emotions
03:52 - As easy as ABC
05:20 - Regulating your behaviors
05:36 - The SCOPE Process
06:30 - Oxygen Mask - Resilience
08:16 - See our other videos…
08:42 - Summing up
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